Are you having the same argument you had five years ago, with the same person or a new one?
Is there real closeness, or a partnership that simply runs well?
Do you keep choosing the same kind of person, and do you know why?
Are you still engaged by your work, or just good at it?
Is the next step something you want, or the next rung because it's there?
Does your success feel like yours?
When you go home, who do you become?
Which of your parents' habits have you kept without ever deciding to?
Are you still playing a role you were given early: the responsible one, the peacemaker, the one who doesn't need anything?
When you picture the next ten years, is it a plan or a continuation?
What have you been postponing, and what is the postponing protecting?
The last session also brings the four together: what showed up more than once, and what it might mean.
What showed up more than once, and what it might mean.
The aim is greater clarity about how you’re living, what matters to you, and what you may want to examine further.
A clearer sense of where things stand in love, work, family, and your future.
An opportunity to notice patterns that may connect these areas of your life.
A closer look at the relationship between what you say you want and what you actually want.
A sense of whether further conversations would be useful—and what they might focus on.
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